To the light by Alan Johnston for article by Dr Anne Malatt on LIfe as a country doctor

Life as a country doctor

- Photography by Alan Johnston
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I attended a function last night in the town where I live and work, at which we hosted our young doctors and talked to them about life as a country doctor.

I always love meeting our young doctors. They are so fresh, full of life, vibrant and enthusiastic about Medicine and life and have not yet been ground down by what can become the daily grind of real life, if we allow it to be so.

We spoke about why we love living and working in the country.

I grew up in a small town, as the daughter of two doctors, and vowed I would never live and work in the country myself, yet here I am in my 60s, living and working as a rural doctor and loving it!

As a teenager, I found it claustrophobic growing up in the country. Everyone knew where I was and what I was up to (often no good!) and I would much have preferred the relative privacy and anonymity of growing up in the city. In the country, it is much harder to hide. People know where you live, what you drive, where you shop, and they meet you when you go out to eat, so you cannot separate your life and your work, and be an impeccable practitioner in your work life and a ratbag in your personal life and expect to get away with it!

But I love that now about country life. It brings home the reality that it is all one life, and that how I live in my personal life affects how I practice professionally, and how I am at work affects my relationships at home. I have to be transparent about myself and my life, and to stay connected with people, whether I am ‘off’ duty or ‘on’.

I get to know people, personally, as well as professionally, and am part of a community. People refer business by word of mouth, and the sound of my name precedes me. I have been practising in this area for 25 years now, and have cared for people and their families through those years, watching them grow up, and grow old.

In terms of work, being a specialist in the country allows me a broad range of practice that would not be possible in the city.

City specialists now tend to be so super-specialised that other qualified specialists can feel obliged to refer on many of their patients to those who are even more specialised in this area. This is so even when they have also been trained to deal with these conditions and are perfectly capable of doing so, leaving them with a small range of conditions to manage. My patients would have to drive for over two hours to the nearest city to see such a specialist, so I have learned to manage many complex conditions, often with the great help of my city colleagues, who are super supportive and only a phone call away. Because I practice in the country, I find such super specialists very collegiate and willing to support me to care for my patients myself, whereas I understand that life can be much more competitive and less cooperative in the city.

I also perform a broad range of operations, again many of which I would feel obliged to refer to someone even more specialised than myself if I were living in the city. So my professional life is interesting, rewarding and deeply satisfying.

And then there is the lifestyle.

I live in a lovely big house on an acre of land with gorgeous views of the countryside and hills. I have a picturesque 15 minute drive to work, where I park outside the tastefully renovated old house that is my office and there is plenty of parking for our customers too. Our local butcher, greengrocer and supermarket are a 5-10 minute drive from home and the beautiful beach of Byron Bay is a 30 minute scenic drive away. My life is light, bright and spacious and the sounds of birdsong are louder than the noise of the traffic.

When I go to the city, the noise, the intensity, the commute, the parking, the pressure, the competition, comparison and sheer force of getting ahead, making a name for yourself and making enough money to pay the mortgage and keep up with the lifestyle are deeply felt.

Sure, there are great shops, restaurants and modes of entertainment but after three days of enjoying them, I am ready to come home.

Now I am not saying that country life is for everyone, but it is worth considering.

As a young doctor, it is worth opening your eyes to all options before making the major life and lifestyle decision as to where you will live and work.

We have young registrars on rotation here and they love being with us, as the work is interesting, they get lots of operating, the pace of life is more relaxed and people are more open and friendly. Many of them would love to come here to live and work and the main stumbling block is family. Leaving family and friends and your social support network at a time when you have young children or are considering starting a family is a major consideration that usually pulls them back to city life.

I moved away from my family when I was pregnant with my first child and there were times when I did feel isolated and alone and could have done with a helping hand. But I never thought about giving up and moving back to the city. I loved the openness of people here and the willingness to support, even if they hardly knew me. I loved the fact that people understood I only worked three days a week because I had young children. I loved that day care was down the road and the primary school was literally across the road when my children were young, so that I was only a few minutes away if they ever needed me. I loved  that my commute was a short scenic drive and that I could go for a walk on the beach before I went to work, or take the kids for fish and chips at the beach after work on a hot summer’s day.

If you embrace country life and the people who live it, you can make new friends and build support networks of people in similar situations and with the willingness to make it work, it will.

At the very least, you can give it a go, will gain lots of experience, and have a great time along the way.

And if you decide to go back to the city and re-join the faster, more intense pace of life there, you can bring the light, bright and spacious feeling that you enjoyed in the country to city life. We are all needed, bringing our all to work and life and whether you choose to live and work in the country or the city, it is a matter of finding out what works best for you.

Wherever we live and work, it is all one life and it is up to us to find a way to live and work that allows us to be our all and bring our all. Life can be very simple, no matter where we are, and if we care deeply for ourselves, as well as everyone else, taking care of the basics of food, water, rest, exercise and sleep, we bring a body to life that can adapt to whatever our circumstances are, be in the flow of what presents for us to attend to, and bring our all, no matter where we are.

7 COMMENTS

  1. Loved reading every word of this article Anne. The way in which you live life can be felt throughout and that deep sense of commitment and joy both at work and everyday livingness, there is no separation. What I often hear from those that live in the town or city they cannot bare the ‘stillness’ or natural activity of the countryside (of which I live in) mentioning it is too ‘slow’ the pace in the town/city is one of stimulation and ‘things to do’- all a choice. You clearly show us that you can bring what is lived in the country to the town/city life without getting ‘hot and bothered’ and caught up in the possible overwhelm of it all. The flow of your work blends with such ease into your way of life, the clarity and joy of this is very evident.

    • Thank you Marion,
      I do love my work and my life and am glad that that can be felt in the writing,
      with love,
      Anne

  2. Dear Anne,
    I’ve always admired your clarity in serenity when I’ve read your posts.
    As a Counsellor of all value systems
    to assist and be helpful in understanding
    others.I find this in you .It’s a natural gift
    you have ,of the Spirit of altruism and nature.Thanks for your sharing 🙏💕

    • Thank you Elizabeth.
      So glad you find this helpful and I deeply appreciate your appreciation,
      with love,
      Anne

  3. Dear Anne,

    I love the simplicity of your blog and as always I read it at the perfect time. This is a beautiful offering for us all, whatever our work and wherever we are in our lives.

    As you shared, “Life can be very simple, no matter where we are, and if we care deeply for ourselves, as well as everyone else, taking care of the basics of food, water, rest, exercise and sleep, we bring a body to life that can adapt to whatever our circumstances are, be in the flow of what presents for us to attend to, and bring our all, no matter where we are.” This is gold. It starts with the basic 101 of self care and flows from there.

    Thank you.

  4. Dear Anne,
    I’ve deeply enjoyed to read you as it felt the same as when you talk almost like listening to the flow and sound of the river. Calming, profound, that for me is the voice and sound of Life. A life well lived for in it every bit matters and do feels true.

    Thank you

  5. I simply love reading your blog. My first husband was a rural doctor in India. My relationship with him lasted only for few years because of personal problems, but I still remember him working as a rural Doctor in India and the experience of living in the country side was ever refreshing.

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